The Church
You've Always Longed For
Becoming a Caring Church
Part 2
2. Characteristics of Caring
People
10:33 But a certain Samaritan,
as he journeyed, came where he was. And when he saw him, he had
compassion.
10:34 So he went to him and
bandaged his wounds, pouring on oil and wine; and he set him on
his own animal, brought him to an inn, and took care of him.
10:35 On the next day, when he
departed, he took out two denarii, gave them to the innkeeper,
and said to him, 'Take care of him; and whatever more you spend,
when I come again, I will repay you.'
10:36 So which of these three
do you think was neighbor to him who fell among the
thieves?"
10:37 And he said, "He
who showed mercy on him." Then Jesus said to him, "Go
and do likewise." Luke 10:33-37
1. Caring People Put Aside
Prejudices (v.33a).
1.
Jesus tells us that the third man to come down the road was
"a Samaritan." Samaritans were half-breed Jews. They
were a race of people who had Jewish ancestry on one side and
Canaanite on the other. Because of the mixed blood, Jews hated
Samaritans. Because the Jews hated the Samaritan, the Samaritans
hated them back.
2. The
fact that the wounded man was Jewish didn't seem to bother the
"Samaritan" at all. As we read through the parable, we
see he went to great lengths and considerable expense to help
him.
3. When
someone is hurting, a caring person put his prejudices aside.
Jesus died for all men regardless of race, color, social or
economic standards.
2. Caring People Notice
Other's Pain (v.33b).
1.
Notice specifically what this verse says that the Samaritan when
he "came where he was... saw him." Unlike the
"priest" and the "Levite" it seems that he
came over to inspect the man.
2. Imagine
this Samaritan, warily making his way down the desolate dirt
road, constantly looking out for bandits when he hears a
groaning in the roadside ditch. Disregarding his own safety, he
went over to see what made the sound and there he found a beaten
man, naked and "half dead."
3.
The Samaritan is an example to us in that he took time to see
what was wrong. So often we like the "priest" and
"Levite" are so caught up in our own plans, our own
agendas that we don't even notice when someone else is hurting.
We are often oblivious to the sad look on their faces. Even when
they speak of their pain, we want to change the subject quickly.
Caring people are always looking for ways to serve others.
3. Caring People Take Time to
be Compassionate (v.33c).
1.
Notice a key phrase in this verse. The Samaritan "had
compassion." "Compassion" comes from a Greek word
that literally means "a yearning in the bowels." Jesus
had that same "compassion" for the multitudes.
2.
Oh how God's people need "compassion" today, a deep
empathy, a lump-in-the-throat, I'll-do-anything-I-can feeling
for others.
3.
You may think, "If I found a dying man on the roadside I
would help." I hope you would, but that's not the
point. Are we willing to help the wife that lost her husband,
the dad who lost his job, the single mother etc...
ILLUS>Two men were heading
by dog sled to their outpost in Alaska. They were both in danger
of freezing to death. As they were going along, they came upon
someone who was apparently nearly frozen. One said to the other,
" Let's stop and help him." The other said, "No,
if we stop and help him, we will surely freeze to death and
never make it." The one who wanted to help said, "Let
me off here and you go ahead." He got off the dog sled as
his companion continued. He tried to revive the dying man by
massaging his arms and legs in order to get the blood
circulating in his body. The effort he expended in massaging the
man's limbs gave him the physical heat that he needed to keep
from freezing to death. The snowstorm was soon over and the two
were safe, but down the path was a dead man with a dog sled...
all alone. We are never
more like Jesus than
when we exhibit compassion.
4. Caring People Get Involved
(v.34).
1.
The Samaritan "went to him." He didn't pass by. He
chose to involve himself. He "bandaged his wounds pouring
on oil and wine." "Oil" probably olive oil, was
widely used by people of this period as a medicine to sooth the
pain of open wounds. "Wine" was used as an antiseptic
to keep wounds clean and prevent infection.
2.
Next, the Samaritan "set him on his own animal." We
assume he traveled with a donkey. Instead of riding, he allowed
this Jew, his racial enemy to ride while he walked.
3. The
Samaritan "brought him to an inn and took care of
him." There were no hospitals, no emergency rooms, no
ambulances, no 911 as we know today. There was no place to drop
this victim off. So, the Samaritan rented a room in an
"inn" and cared for the man as best he could.
4. In
our culture it is so easy to be isolated. It's easy to look the
other way when we see a homeless person with a sign. It's easy
to refer a person in need to a relief organization. It's easy to
forget to pray for or call or visit a fellow church member going
through a difficult time.
5.
Jesus got involved.
5. Caring People are not
Stingy (v.35).
1.
Notice that on "the next day" when the Samaritan got
ready to leave, he paid the "innkeeper" "two
denarii" and said, "Take care of him and whatever more
you spend, when I come again, I will repay you." Note only
did he care for the man, but he paid the bill!
2. Jesus
is not stingy either. He is typified in this Samaritan. He paid
our sin debt with His own life.
ILLUS>I love the words of
that old hymn,
"Jesus paid it all!
All to Him I owe! Sin had left a crimson stain (a bloody
stain) He washed it white as snow!"
6. Jesus asks an Easy Question
(vv.36-37).
1.
Finishing the parable, Jesus turned to lawyer and asked,
"So which of these do you think was neighbor to him who
fell among thieves?"
2. The
lawyer answered, "He who showed mercy [who cared ]
on Him." Jesus responded, "Go and do likewise."
3.
If we want Jesus' blessing, if we want to be a caring church, if
we want to be the church we've always dreamed of, we must
"go and do likewise."
3. Six Simple Steps in Becoming
a Caring Person
1. First, Identify People who
need your Care. Sit
down and make a list of the needs of people around you: your
family, the church, neighbors...
2. Second, Reach Out to Others,
Don't Wait for Them to come to You. In church you should shake
their hand and introduce yourself. Take time to get to know
them. Most people are private. They will not ever bother you
with their burdens until you take time to get involved with
them.
3. Third, Communicate Beyond
the Superficial Level.
When you meet someone it okay to "talk about the
weather." However, as you develop a relationship, pursue
depth by asking meaningful questions.
4. Fourth, Empathize with
Them.
Bear one another's burdens,
and so fulfill the law of Christ.
Galatians 6:2
Let them know that you are
willing to help them. Get under their load with them.
5. Fifth, Listen without
Judging. Good
listening requires concentration, hearing what is not said as
well as that which is said. It involves eye contact and body
language. It means trying to communicate. In this way, you can
hear a person's heart, needs, and anxieties. Our action step for
he week is Listening with the ears of Jesus.
6. Sixth, Respond with a
Caring Gift. Give
something tangible that says, "I'm praying for you" or
"I'm with you." It might be a card, a book, a
bookmark... anything they can hold in their hands and be
reminded they are not alone.
Concl:
Everybody wants to be part of a caring church, but a caring
church is made up of caring individuals. Are you willing to work
at being a caring person? Listen to this letter from your
church:
I am your church.
Make of me what you will. I shall reflect you as clearly as a
mirror. If outwardly my appearance is pleasing and inviting, it
is because you have made me so. If you find my spiritual
atmosphere to kindly yet earnest, reverent yet friendly,
worshipful yet sincere, sympathetic yet strong, divine yet
humanly expressed, it is but the manifestation of the spirits of
those who constitute my membership. But if you should by chance
find me a bit cold
and dull, I beg of you not to
condemn me, for I show forth the only kind of life I shall
receive from you. I have no life or spirit apart from you. Of
this may you always be assured: I will respond instantly to your
every wish, practically expressed, for I am the reflected image
of your own soul.
Make of me what you will.